She will feel important and worthy of listening to, and will definitely be ready to take things a step further. If you’re lucky enough to progress the relationship to the bedroom, then you’re in a fantastic position to consolidate your superiority over the younger man.
It is usually the case that the twentysomething male has a “jump straight in, genitals first and only” kind of approach.
I track the conversation -- I'm not leaping from one topic to another.
But even if you don't like listening, LISTEN anyway. • First, you're not as fascinating as you think you are. I don't care if you're Jon Hamm or Joe Scarborough or the head of an investment bank or ambassador to Ghana.
The older man in a relationship with a younger woman often struggles to correctly identify what it is that has attracted her in the first place.
Consequently, trying to work out what preconception attracted her to you and acting upon your mistaken logic can actually have a negative effect.
It’s every older guy’s dream to have a young, beautiful little thing hanging off his arm on the way to dinner or another social function.
• Be doggedly attentive and affectionate -- do things for women, from grocery shopping to rubbing their tired feet to being a sociable party companion and more. But even if not, she has something to say and longs to be heard. Next time, we'll talk about sex and money, and start talking about some advice for women over 50 in the dating world.Guys mature emotionally at a much slower rate than women and can easily get into their thirties with the emotional intelligence of a five-year-old. Show her that your maturity ensures that a relationship with you is a true emotional partnership, not a one-way street to toy town! You don’t get to your later years without learning a thing or two.This doesn’t mean that you have to talk at length about quantum physics or sub-Saharan politics.Use your sexual sophistication to give her what easily may be her first true orgasm, and have her begging to come back for more. Yes, you’re older, you probably have a better career than any of the younger guys she knows–and consequently, a lot more money.However, don’t try to take advantage of this fact to secure her affections.