You will know exactly what it takes to inspire him to bring his best to the relationship. They paint a picture that looks a lot like the coyote chasing after the roadrunner. You won’t panic over the state of your relationship … Like the fear that men are afraid of commitment and the only way to get a man to commit is to trick him into it. I didn’t realize at the time that men don’t experience relationships this way.
When you know the truth, you will be free to be yourself, you will know what it takes to really reach a man, and you will put any fears he may have to rest. Men typically experience relationships in the moment, as they’re unfolding.
A man can also experience rejection in the early stages of dating or in an established relationship, and even in marriage.
The problem is, a lot of women don’t know what rejection looks like to a man.
Just as most women primarily need to feel cherished and adored, men need to feel appreciated and admired to be truly satisfied in a relationship. When you give a man what he truly needs, it allows him to be himself and inspires him.
In turn, he will naturally want to give you more of what you need.
When I tell people what I do for a living, they always ask for the most surprising or important thing I’ve learned about men through writing about relationships.
This chapter is the long version of my answer: Men need to feel like winners.
It provides a breakdown of the male psyche while also giving you a lot of insight into yourself and into your relationships. From personal experience, I can tell you that trying to decipher whether or not a particular guy had feelings for me was a .Rejection hurts no matter what your gender, but it takes different forms for men and women.Given what we learned in the last chapter about how essential it is for a man to feel like a winner, it’s not surprising that most men are absolutely terrified of rejection.I honestly never knew or even considered how vital it is for a man to feel like a winner.I never saw it discussed or even hinted at in magazines or relationship books, and it certainly isn’t something men tell you outright. Once you know it, however, you will see it in everything he does. You won’t feel like he isn’t prioritizing you or doesn’t care …